Happy New Year 2010

       2010      

Blue Moon 12/31/2009

The rarest of blue moons on New Year’s Eve will be seen
Thursday 12/31/2009.

Magic things happen when wishing on a blue moon

My Cat Contemplates

Mimi not only contemplates, she plots. I have come to the conclusion that she is capable of doing so even when she sleeps. Perhaps she fakes sleep to put me off guard because I notice she cocks an ear to catch the direction of sounds when she appears to be sleeping.  Her curiosity knows no bounds, but the inquisitiveness she exhibits usually takes the form of snooping.

Not being a natural born cat person, I am constantly amazed at the machinations’ of cat behavior. Sometimes Mimi is overtly crafty and if caught in some act, quickly pretends loving affection and tries to groom my skin and sniff my hands or face.

One of Mimi’s favorite games is finding the highest level in the apartment where she can sit as watch guard, or safely take a nap. She tests the waters, so to speak, and is clever in finding ways to attain her objective.

A few days ago I repositioned several pieces of furniture, mainly two chests of drawers. Neither had been used by Mimi in her games of mountain climbing since they are too high for her to jump on. The place the chests have been moved to now create the tantalizing possibility of her reaching the highest surface achieved to date in her nine lives.

She hasn’t yet determined that a leap from the window sill to the top of one chest can be achieved without misstep; consequently, she sits on the sill and calculates the distance. An object on top of the chest complicates the situation because she can’t see whether or not it stands where she would land if the leap was successful, thus, a conundrum.

It’s only a matter of time though before Mimi attempts the jump, since cat dilemmas are persistently studied until solutions are found.

Merry Christmas 2009

To the readers of my blog

May your day be merry,
May your day be bright,
And if you want snow,
May your day be white.

Mrs. B.

Seasons Greeting

O, gather me the rose, the rose,
While yet in flower we find it,
For summer smiles, but summer goes,
And winter waits behind it!

By William Ernest

Oh, 'tis a time most fit to see
How beautiful the dawn can be!

Wide, sparkling fields snow-vestured lie
Beneath a blue, unshadowed sky;
A glistening splendor crowns the woods
And bosky, whistling solitudes;
In hemlock glen and reedy mere
The tang of frost is sharp and clear;

By Lucy Maud Montgomery

The Twelve Days of Christmas

[Editor's Note: click to enlarge]

Christmas Trees I’ve Known

I’ve seen Christmas trees for as long as I can remember. My first recollection of Christmas trees and gifts was when I was between 3 and 4 years of age, sitting on the floor of a church looking at a tall, Christmas tree decorated with ornaments and lights while Santa distributed gifts.

My little sister, Adeline received doll dishes, I received a doll. I fervently believed Santa had made a mistake; Adeline should have gotten the doll, and I, the dishes. I knew how to have pretend tea parties, but Adeline did not because she was still a baby. I cried and whined for hours because my parents would not let me make the exchange.

When I was 5 years old, I counted down the days until Christmas and spent hours leafing thru the toy pages in the Sears catalog. I don’t remember a tree that year, but I remember the pretty butterfly on wheels my brother Mickey got. .

I was in the third grade when the family moved to Iowa Falls, Iowa. On Christmas Eve, Mom and Dad helped us hang our stockings and put out a plate of cookies for Santa, then it was off to bed. When we woke Christmas morning, there would be a magnificent tree, glowing with tinsel, ornaments and lights. Toys, wrapped and unwrapped were under the tree and each of our stockings was filled with Oranges, Brazil nuts, ribbon candy and English walnuts. I remember dessert being thin slices of fruit cake that had been made months before and ripened with Kentucky Bourbon.

When Adeline and I along with Mickey and Charles were a little older, we asked the folks to let us have the Christmas tree before Christmas. From that point on, we decorated a tree before December 25, sometimes a few days, sometimes a week before.

I loved the fragile ornaments. They were usually made in Germany and were not only colorful, but had lovely shapes. One rarely sees that kind today; most of the ornaments being plastic colored balls of varying sizes. There were times when we tried to make popcorn and cranberry strings for the tree, but the cranberries usually split and we could never make the popcorn strings long enough to please us. We often made paper chains, but we ALWAYS had ice cycle tinsel.

When I was 8 months pregnant, my husband sold Christmas trees in Redwood City. It was an adventure that happened on the spur of a moment when he read an ad in a newspaper about Oregon shipping Christmas trees to California for sale. With false bravado we gambled our savings of $200 and set up a lot on El Camino in Redwood City and hoped to make a profit, at least break even. Luck and timing was with us. Business was so brisk we had to order more trees and started flocking them for an extra fee. My brothers spent their school vacation helping my husband at the tree lot.

One Christmas, when my husband, baby son and I, along with my sister Esther and her husband, Vernon, lived at the Sky Ranch, on Kings Mountain in Redwood City, I made a model of Kings Mountain on the top of a kitchen table. I moved the table to a corner of the living room and decorated the tiny Sequoia trees around the tiny Sky Ranch.

Over the years Christmas trees came and went. Most of them fir trees, but occasionally a blue spruce was decorated. The fir trees were always bushier, but the fragrance of either added to the holiday festivities. I never decorated an aluminum tree, but they were popular for several years, and then faded from sight.

I once returned a Christmas tree to the lot and demanded an exchange. As I watched the helper nail the wooden stand on the tree I had purchased, I told him it was crooked but he said it would be fine. When I got it home I strung the lights and decorated it but had to turn it so it leaned against the wall in order to stand straight. It looked ok so I went about my house chores and suddenly I heard a crash. The tree had fallen down and decorations scattered all over the floor. I picked up the tree and set it more firmly against the wall and redecorated it. It crashed a second time, breaking many of the decorations. I was really annoyed, and rather than fixing it again, I removed the lights and any ornaments still on the tree and took it back to the lot. An exchange was made, setting the world right again, but I think I’m the only person who ever returned a Christmas tree.

When I lived in France, our French student friends came to help decorate our tree and insisted on candles even though that practice had long disappeared in the states because of fire hazard. With great caution, we lit the candles. The sight was quite enchanting and dramatic.

Plastic Christmas trees have been on the market for a long time, but tree farms offer genuine trees with ideal shapes for holding ornaments and a star at the top. For the last few years I have continued displaying the same 2 foot tall imitation table tree that came with charming tiny wooden ornaments and mini lights.

Winter Snow

The unusual snow fall in Houston brought back memories of snowy winters in Iowa. The degree of pleasure one experiences during a snow fall depends on the way the snow falls. It can float gently down in large flakes, slowly coating surfaces in white, or it can fall thick and steady, quickly deepening the coating of white on surfaces.

Snow can come with the gentlest of breezes or with gusty winds that take your breath away. It’s described as wet, dry or powder. It can be icy slick or sticky wet.

Frequent spells of snow in winter creates layers of new snow on top of old, accumulating in a thickness that often lasts until spring unless there is a ‘January Thaw’.

As children, snow never prevented us from walking to school or playing outdoors. The only time school was closed was during a blizzard. Sometimes the snow on the ground did not last long and it was always a delight to wake on Christmas morning to discover it had snowed during the night.

In day time, the whiteness of snow disguises familiar objects and creates a world apart from the lush green of summer; at night it glistens in moon light. It has been many years since I heard the crunch of snow underfoot as I walked thru deep snow with a crusted surface. What a delight to come into the house and feel the cozy warmth and smell the fragrant odors of cooking or baking from the kitchen after being out in the snow for any length of time.

In those long ago winter evenings the family’s activities were much different from those of most families today. We spent them listening to the radio, which brought news, music and radio stories into the house. As the family listened to Fibber McGee and Molly, Stories from the Black Lagoon or Jack Benny, we children often sat on the floor cracking black walnuts on a brick with a hammer. We ate as many as we saved for Mom to use in baking.

Regardless of whatever amusement we children were involved in, either Adeline or I would suggest hot chocolate. If Mom gave the OK, we made enough for refills which were excuses to double up on marshmallows.

Going to bed in winter meant climbing under the blankets and shivering while we curled up as small possible until our bodies warmed the sheets, then fell asleep in little cave spots among the blankets.

I saw the news video of heavy snow falling on the White House in Washington after it had passed Houston and reached the east coast. It was a Christmas card picture and reminded me of the layered digital photos one sees of animated snow in photos.

Remembering Our Country Christmas

[note: this story was written by my sister Esther]

My sister Marion Elizabeth and I have been trying to remember some of our Mother's recipes that were so very good. We always had great birthday cakes and her pies were the best. As much as we helped in the kitchen as she was making them, we did not really know all she put in the mixing bowl as she had us getting the sugar out and measuring it for her and the amount of flour she needed or the baking powder or soda required to make our favorite deserts for the evening meal.

It was when I was in high school that I wanted to learn her recipes, especially the ones I loved for her to make at Thanksgiving and Christmas time. I know she used the Heresy cocoa recipe on the box for Devils Food Cake. That was my favorite. Then she would put Seven Minute Frosting on top of the three layers she made and covered the top and sides with lots of shredded coconut to help keep her hands clean when she would cut it and serve it to the plate.

But it was the burnt sugar cake recipe I would love to have again. She did not have a recipe to go by; it seems she knew it by heart and did not need to write it down, so I never knew where she got that one from. It was a very good caramel tasting cake.

There are so many more that have been forgetten and that is a loss. When Marion Elizabeth and I would try to think back to those times, we both decided to write the ones we could in the cook book so our children would have the ones they might like to have in their files.

One time, my Mother and my sister Marion Elizabeth decided to see who could make the best lemon pie. They only had two judges: my Father and brother. Of course Dad had to say Mom’s was the best and our brother said he thought Mom’s had just a bit more lemon flavor to her pie, but that in his opinion they were both great tasting lemon pies. Since I was not there for the competition, when I came to visit they both made another set of pies so I could judge too. Mom did have a good pie. So did my sister but I had to say Mom could still cook.

I remember her mince meat pies. They were so good and so were her pumpkin pies which she served with real whip cream. She never made less than a half dozen pies and lots of different cakes. The cookies were also great at Christmas time. Her ginger bread boys and girls were one of my favorite. Mom made happy faces on her boys and girls.

Several days before Christmas, Mom would pop some popcorn. Everyone would sit around with threaded needles and string pop corn and red cranberries to make garlands to hang on the tree that Dad would bring home. We ate as much or more as we were stringing them. Marion had Jerry, Dick and me on the floor pasting together color paper rings to use as garlands also.

At the holiday time, a lot of our relatives would come to spend Christmas with us and bring their children. Relatives made the holiday seasons a lot nicer for me. Aunt Nettie had a brand new baby girl and she was a joy to hold and watch her babble trying to talk. She was adorable and Aunt Nettie let me watch her if I would not try to pick her up.

First thing Dad did when he brought the tree into the house was to string the lights around the tree. Marion and Adeline and Mickey put on the ornaments Mom and Dad had from past Christmases. With Mom’s cooking and the tree the house began to smell just like Christmas. There was cinnamon and cookies and hot chocolate with marshmallows.

And every Christmas Eve Dad would read the story of baby Jesus and tell us that we celebrated his birthday and we should all think of him at that time.

When it was time to go to bed, we would hang our stockings on the mantle. It was hard to think about going to sleep with so many different smells in the house. Cinnamon and nutmeg and a pine tree.

We all wanted it to snow on Christmas Day. Those were the best Christmases. There is nothing better than to get up and see the white snow all over the place. A winter land is so lovely and clean and a picture post card scene.

[editor's note: MrsB's Recipes Vol 1 can be found in the Download Section to the left]

Countrified

After receiving the key to the country house, we walked the three miles back to the train ‘stop’. As we rode the train back to Paris, we enthusiastically talked about the advantages of living in the country, yet still living near enough to Paris to enjoy all the city had to offer.

Over the next few days we told our friends of our plans to move to the country side and assured them they would be welcome visitors and that we would be coming into Paris often to see them. On the day we moved from Paris with our trunk and suitcases, we took the train to the nearest town to Marangis. From there we loaded a taxi with our luggage and rode the 20 or so miles to the house, arriving well before noon.

The house came with a bed in the downstairs bedroom, one in the upstairs room and a dining table and chairs in the large room off the kitchen. As I set about dusting and making beds with the linens we had purchased in Paris, my husband asked a neighbor about getting butane for the stove. At the time we received the key to the house, we had been told butane was available at the little store, but because of our imperfect French, we had not understood that we would have to lug it home with a wheelbarrow.

We were dismayed at the idea of pushing a wheelbarrow three miles to get a tank of butane, then pushing it three miles back, but it was either that or go without. The brick wall stove and oven had not been used for a long time. Never having had the experience using this kind of stove, we were reluctant to start.

Our neighbor was willing to loan his wheelbarrow and without further delay, my husband started down the road, but neither he nor I had any idea how long it would be before he returned. Many hours later he returned only to struggle and overcome the obstacle of connecting the tank to the stove with borrowed tools.

We began to adjust to the problem of keeping enough water from the well on hand for drinking and cooking and the several buckets of water needed in the bathroom for flushing the toilet.

The neighbors across the road were very helpful in telling us which farmer sold milk, chickens and eggs and which took in laundry. A truck made the rounds of the hamlet on a scheduled week day taking orders for meat and veggies which would be delivered his next trip and a bakery truck delivered breads once a week, also on a scheduled week day. Within a short walking distance from the house, a farmer sold cheese. Our little creek provided all the watercress one could use. In a short time, routines, which proved advantageous, developed, and we settled into county living as our French neighbors lived it.

At the Lake Part 9 - A New Home

[note: This story was written by my sister Esther]

We spent some wonderful years at the lake. The fishing hole, the doctor told Vernon to find, was really the best and we loved being in the pine tree forest. Among the pine trees were the most lovely dog wood trees. To see the creamy white blossoms surrounded by all the green pine needle was a scene that remind me of the Christmas Holidays. A time of peace and happiness. It was not only good for Vernon, but really good for me also.

As I said, the travel trailer was not comfortable enough to have company, and we thought we could manage to make do for a while. It was just too much. It was not easy to convert the front of the trailer into a bed room, and then to remove the table top in the dinning area to make another bed for the company. So off to find us a mobile home.

It did not take long to know what we wanted. A mobile home with out all the built ins. Vernon wanted room and I wanted to have my sewing machine out to be used when ever it was needed. Something I could not have in the small travel trailer. And I wanted lots and lots of windows. We did pick one we liked and it was delivered a week later.

It took them a while to drive down the winding gravel road with the mobile home. It was one lane from the pavement to the gate where you came into our land. The driver knew his business, as he drove in with out a problem. Vernon told him where to park it and they set if up and even had it anchored down with some deep grounded metal straps. Which help keep it in place if the weather was bad, with tornado type storms.

Getting all the utilities in was difficult and until the new lines and pipes were finished, we were glad to have the little travel trailer to live in. Vernon put in the new water pipes with the help of our son. He laid out the line and the son dug the trench and Vernon then glued the fittings and even tried to help cover it up. Vernon found it was too much for him to shovel the dirt so let jr do it. He learn to let others do the heavy work.

How nice it was to able to walk from the front room to the kitchen, or to the dinning room, and to the front room. All three areas were in the one large room at the front of the trailer. It was a big space and I loved it. It made a big difference in walking between the two trailers. One item we needed was a new big screen television. Vernon did love to watch his football and base ball although he never really had a favorite team.

After we moved in to our new home, my Mom and Dad came to spend a few days with us. Mom wanted me to help her do some sewing for a quilt top she wanted to finish. And Dad wanted to go fishing. So off the men went, and Mom and I started sewing. She let me sew while she made the stew for our supper. It was not long till she was beside me and giving me the cut pieces to sew. Together we had the quilt top done and I liked the pattern: "A Double Irish Chain". She would finish quilting it at her home where she had a quilt frame Dad had made for her in his wood shop. That was my first time to sew a quilt top and knew I would do some more. Mom showed me some of her patterns and they were all so pretty. Guess you know, I was truly hooked on quilting now.

Mom even got me to make one with a tiny hexagon, the size of a fifty cent piece. It was so small, and I thought it could not be done on the sewing machine. I knew it needed to be done by hand stitching. "Grandmother’s Flower Garden ", it was one I could take with me in my pocket and find time to sew on when I would wait in the waiting room while Vernon would see his doctor. Or any place was good if there was time to sew a few seams. Each seam was almost an inch wide, so I could sew a few and it was something I really loved to do. It was my purple passion to sew them.

I’d tell Mom how much she taught me and she would tell me every one of her children were good at something and sewing was mine. Marion Elizabeth could paint. Mickey was a gourmet cook who could cook, bake and make up new recipes. Charles was good at sculpting. Jerry could take old cans or plastic bottles and make the nicest items. Jerry showed my children how to make log planter out of cans with plaster of Paris and paper towel cardboard rolls with some shoe polish to make it look like a weathered log.

Every one but me loved to travel. At the drop of a hat or sooner they would just up and be off on a trip. For me, it was to have them come to visit us. Vernon enjoyed having a fishing partner and I loved company.

Moving From Paris to the Country

After living a year in Paris, France, my husband, 3 year old son and I moved to a country house in Marangis, Seine Et Marne, France. We had answered a newspaper add offering a small house, in a small hamlet, for a small annual rent, and arranged to see it. After getting directions to the property, we rode the train for several hours to a station that was nearest the country road leading to the house.

A two minute walk up a slight ridge overlooking the train tracks led to combination post office and store. We asked for directions to the house and discovered that we would have to walk the three miles to it since no one living in the area owned an auto. The only phone available was the one in the little store and taxis were non existent. There was no town as such, only a cluster of several houses near a church.

About a quarter mile down the road, we passed a large gate of tall iron spikes guarding a chateau that seemed closed and unused. As we left the populated area near the railroad tracks, the road traversed flat, agricultural fields. The dry, soft dirt of the road made little puffs of dust over our shoes as we walked along.

Eventually we saw a house in the distance that turned out to be the one we came to see. Opposite the house were two more houses, one with a locked gate and shuttered windows. Later we learned it was owned by a stock broker in Paris whose wife and children used it during school vacations. The house next door to it was owned and lived in by a middle aged couple who farmed various plots of land in the surrounding area.

A path thru a small field took us to the caretaker of the property, an old woman who walked back to the house with us and answered our questions.

It had a well for drinking water, but no plumbing for running water; however it was wired for electricity with incandescent bulbs hanging from ceiling cords. The kitchen had a brick wall stove and oven and a small 2 burner stove like the kerosene stove we used back in Palo Alto at Stanford Village. A bedroom with a huge wooden shutter for a window was entered from the kitchen. When the shutter was open, one could step over the 2 foot high sill to enter or leave the room without walking through the kitchen door which was the only door into the house. There was a pseudo bathroom with a toilet one flushed with a bucket of water.

Thru a door two steps up from the kitchen was a large room with a stairway along one wall leading to a large up stairs room with two large wooden shutters. One opened to a view of a cherry orchard, the other opened to green fields with a creek running thru it. Outside on the back side of the house was a door leading to a dirt floor cellar where cider and wine casks were stored.

There were several apple trees near the kitchen door and about 15 cherry trees stretching to the far end of the property. Because the grounds gradually sloped toward a line of trees growing along the edge of a creek, we had a view over looking the fields in the far distance.

The old woman told us propane could be gotten to run the little 2 burner stove but one would have to push a wheel barrow to and from the post office /store for the tank. There would not be anyone to help since all the farmers were busy in the fields.

My husband and I must have been thinking the same thing during the tour. When we looked at each other, we knew we had found a home in the country. It was a perfect place for artists to live and work. The limitations only added to the romance of our experience. We paid the caretaker the agreed amount of money and received the key.

Thus began the second year of our stay in France.

[Editor's Note:  Marangis is now associated with the town of Vernou-La-Celle-Sur-Seine.]

The following links are in french and have references to Marangis:

• Google Map: Marangis 77670
• ViaMichelin Map: Marangis 77670
• French Wiki: Vernou-la-Celle-sur-Seine
• Official Site: Vernou-la-Celle-sur-Seine
• French Wiki: History of the Valley of 7 Mills (Marangis is one of them)

Here are some other period photos of that area.

Remembering My Cousin

[note: this story was written by my sister Esther]

Albert lived in Kentucky with his Mother, my Aunt Bessie and Father, my uncle Alvin, and his older sister, Rosa Lee. I loved going to see them when Dad would take us there on his vacation.

My two older sisters, Marion, Adeline, and Rosa Lee were in the same age group, so they palled around together. My five brothers and Albert were always doing boy’s stuff. Mom and Dad were with Grandfather and Grandmother. So every one was off doing their thing and I was always with Aunt Bessie in the kitchen doing what Aunt Bessie wanted me to do and helping her to cook for every body.

One day she wanted to make a pot of veggie soup. I helped to peel potatoes, carrots, and to chip celery and onions. I did not like to eat any thing with onions, and asked her to not put them into the soup. She told me I did not have to eat soup. She told me how nice I was chopping the onions and no one would ever know there were onions in the pot. So would I take a bite if I was not able to see any onions in it? I did promise I would and since I did not see them; the soup was very good. She made me like onions from that day ever since.

Albert had his chores to do and the boys helped and there were some times he would come get me to walk with him to gather some things for the kitchen and we would talk while doing the tasks. He was always doing some nice things and he would show me his hobby and when the boys played cards he would ask to include me. He was a nice cousin,

Years later he was still the nice boy when his Mother moved to our town in Redwood City, California. His father had passed away and Aunt Bessie came to spend some time with us. She bought him a new car for his birthday. Vernon worked the night shift and I was expecting my second child any day. I asked Aunt Bessie if Albert could come and stay with me at night and if I needed him, to take me to the hospital. She said yes and it was a comfort to have him, he had to sleep in the sofa and it was not the best for a tall man. One night I had some muscle cramps and it hurt so bad I yelled. Poor Albert got up took my suit case to the car and came back to get me . We laugh now about it but at the time he was so sweet. But it did scare the life out of him. I will always treasure him and that memory.

Another time he came to see me while we were living at Mom Smith's house in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. I saw the car come up the long drive way and did not recognize the car, or the young man that got out of it. The children were out there and he walked over and asked for me and I was shocked to know when he told me he was traveling through the country and he had lunch with us. The children thought the world of him and he told us about every one at home.

It was not too long after Albert came that I had another car come down the drive way and it was another cousin, Homer. His Mother is also my Mother’s sister, and my Aunt Bessie . Like Albert, I did not recognize him either. Two Aunt Bessie’s sons in two months was wonderful.

It’s was a sad day to learn he is not with us now. But time has a way with age. And I will always think of the good times we have with all our family and kin folks.

[family note: There are two "Aunt Bessie"s in the family: One is my father's sister: Bessie Dennison, the other is my mother's sister: Bessie Ross. Albert is the son of my father's sister Bessie Dennison. Homer is the son of my mother's sister Bessie Ross]

Memories of Albert

We who have lost beloved brothers know the pain of loss, and the wishful longing to have changed the ‘events in the womb of time’ so that separations never come.

But, as we have heard so often, Real Life happens when we least want it, and we are left to cope and struggle thru acceptance of grief when the inevitable happens. If we are lucky, we have treasured memories and can bring them to mind as often as we want, and sometimes share them.

My memories of cousin Albert are of him at three different stages of his life. The earliest is when he was around seven years old. His enthusiasm and matter of fact way he talked in his lovely southern drawl captured my heart. He took my hand as we walked around his father’s tobacco farm. He pointed out things of interest and explained the work involved. I could tell he was imitating uncle Alvin, who was busy telling my husband about the tobacco crop. Albert’s childish imitation of a grown up was so endearing, I deliberately asked him questions just to hear him answer.

When Albert was in uniform, grandma A, aunt Bessie and aunt Esther passed on news of him. When he came home and settled down, he married and started a family. Our paths only crossed when I visited aunt Bessie and grandma, but I can still picture him at the end of his work day in his work clothes.

One of my most cherished memories is seeing him again many years later when Adeline and I visited him and RosaLee in Georgia. He was so handsome! Adeline and I nicknamed him our Ky Colonel on the spot and took candid camera shots of him every time he turned around. He was such a gracious host when he took us to see his wonderful ‘cabin’ in the mountains of South Carolina. I call RosaLee my Louisville Belle. What a joy it was to see the two of them, brother and sister, together. You could tell they truly enjoyed each other’s company.

Meeting Albert the first time

[note: this story was written by my son Bob]

When I was about 10 or so ... I was visiting Great-Grandma and Aunt Bessie ... in Long Beach. I had been helping out in the kitchen... I think we had been fixin’ a Holiday dinner most of the day, I’m pretty sure it was Christmas, as it required a lot of preparations ... I was doing whatever I was asked to do, slice vegetables, stir pots, carry this ... and so on… as there had been quite the general commotion goin' on in the kitchen all day, and a lot of great smells emanating throughout the place. From time to time Bessie would say ‘wouldn’t it just be wonderful if Albert could be with us to enjoy this’, but apparently he was not expected anytime soon… I wasn’t really sure who Albert was, but it was clear that his presence would be welcomed.

I had been really enjoying my visit, and was learning [being taught] how to get around in a kitchen, and make myself useful. I loved spending time with Grams and Bessie, and was having a grand time learning from Grams… about the intricacies of preparing food her way… and of course it took amazing willpower [or possibly the odd stern look] not to try all the baked goods and various foods. Everything was just about ready to go and since it was almost dark outside, it was time to eat.

Whilst Grams and Bessie were hard at it in the kitchen, stirring pots, checking on the doneness of various things, and generally getting everything ready, I was implementing my skills – having learned how to set the table properly - and was busy placing the silverware and serving plates and bowls on the table ‘just so’, when suddenly there was an unexpected loud knock at the front door. Everyone in the kitchen was quite involved and since I was closest, I was asked to answer the door...

When I opened the door, there was a young soldier standing there, with a duffel bag at his side. He was dressed in full dress uniform with what appeared to me to be lots of badges and stripes and all sorts of regalia. I was astonished to say the least, as this was the last thing I expected, and my jaw must've dropped wide open. It was the very first time I had ever been face to face with a 'real' soldier… and I was dumbfounded.

Needless to say I had no idea who it was, but the soldier – seeing my consternation - politely asked – in stage whispered loud voice – ‘Was there a Bessie Denison there?’ Simultaneously voices came from the kitchen asking, 'who is it?' The cat must've had my tongue, as it took me a moment to gather myself, and I hollered back 'It's some soldier!?'

Well, my goodness, talk about a genuine commotion from the kitchen, there was a whoop and holler, and one asked 'is it Albert?', and the other declared ‘IT MUST BE ALBERT?!’

The soldier got a BIG smile, and made the international finger across the lips sign to me to be silent, and we were immediately joined in a conspiracy of silence – and we waited for the ladies to come and see who it was. He kept indicating I shouldn't let out an answer, so of course when they came around the corner to see, you would have thought the saints had come marching in!! There was all kinds of and clapping, and hugging and crying, and more hugging and more crying and lots of laughing... and so many 'we weren't expecting you’s, mixed in with ‘we were secretly hoping you’d come’ ... and 'what a wonderful surprise' ... Somewhere in all the to-do there were several stern comments from Bessie about ‘calling ahead’ and not ‘giving everyone the palpitations’. I think Albert said something like ... 'well I was just in the neighborhood so I thought I'd stop by'... and then gave me a conspiratorial wink! I realized he was family and kin to me-some kind of way, so that made it even better. And now I knew a real soldier!

I was SO happy that they were happy, and I loved the way Albert pulled me into his surprise. We became instant pals ... and he was so grown up and he took such an interest in me... that we just became great pals... although, I must say... I was as surprised as anyone ... and even felt a wee bit jealous that he'd taken my thunder - Grams and Bessie always doted on me whenever I visited - but I could tell that his arrival made them so happy, that I couldn't be upset for more than a passing moment.

He settled in, put his duffel bag in the corner, rolled up his sleeves and we got the table set and the food served...and the meal was ever so much better ... ... it was probably the best meal ever, glowing with love and joy, and all kinds of wonderful stories of family, news updates, how he was able to get home early from the Army to surprise everyone, his worldly travels, and so many other wonderful and exciting tales to me, that I was rapt and couldn’t take my eyes off him! After dinner I had to ask him about all his uniform medals and medallions and military regalia, and what were they for, and he patiently explained all the patches and insignia. It was clear that we liked each other instantly. He enjoyed my curiosity, and I was so pleased to know a genuine soldier.

From that first surprise meeting, I've always had the fondest place in my heart for Albert. He was always like a big brother to me, and I have often recalled the joy of that evening, and the indelible image of him standing in the door in his dress uniform - so young and handsome. It seems as if it was just yesterday. My, how time passes. It makes me feel old. I am sorry he is gone, and even though I will miss him, I will always see that young soldier grinning at the door with a twinkle in his eye, fully knowing his arrival would be a wonderful surprise.

Walking

Walking for pleasure not for exercise is something Esther and I have been discussing in our daily Instant Messenger chats. The topic came up when we mentioned that we both were walking more than usual in our daily routines. I have been spending a lot of time on my beading projects sitting by the big window in the front room, aka The Bird Room where my pet cockatiel, Misty Bird, lives. His cage is in a corner next to the window where I have my beading work table and he can see all the activity in the room as well as a portion of the goings-on outside the window.

I have been working on new designs for the jewelry I make and have spent less time at the computer. I still play chess, read blogs, and surf the net, but find myself walking back and forth from the computer room to the bird room more than usual as I take ‘breaks’ from one or the other.

Esther told me how her husband, Vern, mowed mile long pathways thru the waist high grass on their lake property at Toledo Bend so that she could enjoy walks with their grandchildren. She and Vern often took long walks together too.

Hiking has always been a pleasure for me. In high school, a group of 4 or 5 girl friends and I would go on a hike every Saturday. We would meet in the morning with sandwiches in our pockets and hike thru the country side, following creeks thru woods and pastures.

When I was in France I had two Walking experiences that far surpassed the little hikes I had known as a Girl Scout and high school student. My husband and I walked thru much of France, part of Switzerland and the length of Italy and back to Paris staying in youth hostels when they were available.

The second walking trip I took was from Paris to the heart of the Cevennes Mountains with Monett, a French girl and Ali, a Romanian boy, students at the Sorbonne. The trip was actually a combination hitch-hiking and walking trip. Monett and her twin sister, Nicette, had inherited a large forest of chestnut trees in the Cevennes from their deceased parents, but only one of them would make the trip to sign legal papers selling the crop to whichever company offered the best price. To save money, it was decided Monett would hitch hike, taking a student friend, Ali, along for protection. Ali was a tall, good looking fellow with muscles that indicated he could and would win any scuffle that might come along.

When I heard about their plans I asked to go along and share the adventure. My husband and I had known these students for the better part of a year and knew them to be honest, but always in need of money. The trip to find pickers and buyers for the chestnut crop was not a lark but a serious responsibility and after some discussion about the hazards and difficulty, they agreed to take me with them.

Hitch-hiking in the states was an accepted mode of travel during the great depression and during the war. I had experienced hitch-hiking alone and with family members in the states and had no qualms about doing so in France, especially since Ali would be with us.

I knew that neither Monett nor Ali had much money. I agreed to match their amount and that what little we had would be spent only on necessities the three of us agreed on. I secretly carried enough money to get us back to Paris if the need arose, but vowed not to use it except in an extreme emergency.

The morning we left Paris the streets were wet from the rain during the night and sprinkles continued sporadically as we made our way to intersections near the Bastille. Getting rides for three wasn’t an obstacle and everything went well until we got to Marseilles late in the afternoon.

I began having severe menstrual cramps and it was obvious to both Monett and Ali that I was not feeling well. I tried to explain that I wasn’t sick, but my knowledge of the French language consisted mostly of hand gestures and head nods along with Moi, Toi and Merci until the other person finally guessed the meaning of what I was saying. I couldn’t tell if I was understood or not.

Monett left Ali and me sitting on a park bench near the marina saying she would soon come back for us. When she returned, she led us to a small sea side inn and up a flight of stairs to a large, lovely room, cozy with bright colored drapes and chair cushions and a huge old fashioned bed. She explained that she had rented the room so I could rest. I was shocked that she had discussed it with Ali, but not me, but since it was fait accompli, I crawled into bed and slept until noon the next day.

When I woke I felt fine. We spent the next several hours sunning ourselves as we sat on a brick wall overlooking the boats in the marina and being amused by tiny lizards. We bought shelled oysters from the boat men and ate them on the spot. After spending another night in the Inn we stocked up on a few items like matches and candles before heading in the direction of the Cevennes.

The trip so far had been a walk in the park and I was convinced I was ready to tackle the strenuous hike to come. When we finally reached the home of the family that supervised the girl’s property, we were at the bottom of a gorge and from that point on it would be a 5 or 6 hour VERY STEEP climb to the top.

At a small general store we filled our rucksacks with foods to last the few days we would be on the top of the mountain. Ali carried the heaviest load and off we went. It wasn’t long before we began shedding jackets and sweaters as we climbed. There wasn’t a path although Monett seemed to follow an invisible one as we circled around trees and huge boulders, always climbing higher.

I could not climb as fast as the other two and fell behind. I also had to stop frequently to catch my breath, but the other two kept up a steady climbing pace. I could see them far ahead as I climbed in their direction, but I could no longer take the exact turns and twists they had taken. At times they were out of sight but we kept in touch by yelling to each other.

We had to reach the top before dark, so with brute strength and awkwardness I made a determined effort. As I climbed, I thought of the many stories of guides leading refugees over the Pyrenees during the war, and I understood their demands that only fit persons make such a trip. Eventually I caught up with Monett and Ali who had stopped to wait for me and together we set up our little camp before night fall.

That trip is a treasured memory. I have a greater appreciation of the difficulties real mountain climbers overcome since I experienced my much less heroic climb in the Cevennes. Monett was successful in her business dealings and the return trip to Paris was uneventful.

Hiawatha

By the shores of Gitche Gumee,
By the shining Big-Sea-Water,
Stood the wigwam of Nokomis,
...

Those lines came to mind the other day when I was discussing poetry with my sister, Esther. I surprised myself remembering the lines, which came to me easily, but that was all I could remember. It was required reading in high school English as was Gray’s Elegy, Evangeline, The Ancient Mariner and other poems.

Out of curiosity I googled for Hiawatha and decided to read it again. I have a greater appreciation of Longfellow’s inventiveness now than I probably had in school. The descriptive imagery of nature is a pleasure to read and the colors shine thru vividly. I like the sing-song quality of the lines and read them out loud to myself.

Taking time to read a few lines of Hiawatha when the constant repetitious news coverage of war and economic woes stress one to the max, is therapy beyond price.

About: The Song of Hiawatha
Downloadable Book: The Song of Hiawatha
Audio Book: The Song of Hiawatha

Editor's Surprise!

MrsBizzyB has been pretty busy over the last few years writting wonderful stories about her life and experiences. And now that we have Esther's delightful stories, the blog has an added dimension for all of us addicted to their writtings! I thought it would be nice if there was a way to share these stories in another format so that more folks can enjoy them.

So, I have had the stories put into book form and saved in PDF format. These books are by year: 2005 2006 2007 2008. They contain all the stories and comments made at the time. They have a table of contents and are paginated so you can find your favorite story fast. These books can be downloaded and read using Adobe Reader or if you prefer, you can take the PDF to a printing shop and have it printed into hard copy.

I will be pushing the 2009 blog into a pdf-book sometime after the end of the year.

You will find the links to the books on the left in the Download Section under her Recipe Book.

I hope you will enjoy the books as much as you did the original postings!

Kimosabi (Editor)

At the Lake Part 8 - Life on the Lake

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

Vernon would watch most sport programs on the TV. He loved to watch all the football games and baseball was right up there too. I wanted to see the sewing and quilting and craft programs. Since I had lost much of my hearing, I did not watch too much TV. Instead I would sew on quilt blocks and just enjoyed a quiet evening working on the different patterns. My Mom got me started on sewing quilt tops. She had some blocks that my Dad’s Mother made and she wanted me to assemble them into a quilt top so she could finish sewing the quilt. I never knew I would enjoy sewing them but ever since I have made that pattern my favorite. I have made at least a dozen of them.

The biggest surprise of all was when my sister Adeline Marie and Larry came to visit and spend several days with us. We had no idea they were coming, so it was out of the blue when they arrived one evening. Thank goodness I had planned a nice supper that night. We forgot everything and just talked and hugged and never a thought about the food cooking on the stove until we started to smell smoke that said “burnt to a crisp”. The pot was so black, it had to be taken out of the house. I was so upset about the burnt carrots. Then Larry asked if I was cooking them just for him and then he said he did not really like carrots, so I did feel better. I really know Larry knew what to say to help me over a red face trip. He was a good brother in law.

Vernon and I had good years on the acreage in Many, Louisiana. We gained more grandchildren and they all were a blessing to us. Life was so good and we could not have wanted more. I can only say life with love is good and the company makes for better times.

At the Lake Part 7 - A Special Visit

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

One time we had special company come. It was Marion Elizabeth and she brought her daughter Kim. It was so good to see them. Vernon and Kim talked about their horses and how they trained them. Vernon took her down to see his horse and found out the horse had found his way out and into the yard of our neighbor who lived across the lake. It was a good visit for Vernon and me. Kim found out Vernon liked his cookies, and told me how to make some easy ones for him using a cake mix and a few other things. They made some good ones and some fancy ones if you added some good chocolate chips and nuts and other goodies. That was one recipe I wore out just constantly making them for him and me too.

It was the company that made our stay there so nice. Almost every weekend we would have some of my family come to visit. And if we wanted to go see them, we would let them know we were coming their way to do some shopping or just for a visit. Life was so very good to both Vernon and me.

We had aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters come. Some came for a day, as they were passing through, and others came to stay a few days. All were welcomed and wanted. Some visitors were great to have and some were just nice to see. It really seemed like all was for the best and we gave thanks for the blessing we were given.

One time we had Mickey, Charles and Jerry come together for a visit. They would stay out on the lake for hours. Even Hoy, our neighbor, would go with them so they could travel in two boats. This one time, we all watched the Winter Olympics on television and the USA Hockey team were doing everything right. When they won the games and took the gold, we had to celebrate with true fervor and were so proud of the team for winning. It was a thrilling experience for me.

BOX CAKE COOKIES
1 box cake mix (any flavor) lemon, spice, chocolate are good
1/2 c. vegetable oil
2 eggs
Mix oil and eggs into dry cake mix.
Drop by teaspoonfuls onto ungreased cookie sheet.
Bake 350 degrees, 8-10 minutes.

At the Lake Part 6 - First Visitors

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

Our very first company to come was my Mom and Dad. They loved the place and Dad was so pleased to go fishing with Vernon. Mom and I went for a drive to show her we had an uptown and some marinas. We even went looking at fishing gear to see if she wanted to pick out some for her to use when she went fishing. They spent the weekend with us and we celebrated because the men had good luck fishing. Enough to have a good fish fry and some for them to take home and have in their freezer till Mickey or Jerry came back from their jobs on the oil rigs in the gulf of Mexico.

Then there was Mickey, Charles and Jerry to always come and go fishing with Vernon. Our trailer was small but it did sleep six. We gave the men our king size bed and we slept on the full size bed in the dinning room. Thank goodness we were able to eat outside on the patio looking towards the lake. We made the patio on the bluff, the highest part of our land. It was the best place to be to see the sun set. Other times, it was great to sit out there and wait till the morning sun rose. It was the big red shinning sun in all it’s glory as it came over the lake. I would look at it and wish I could have had some of Marion Elizabeth’s painting supplies and the knowledge of how to use them.

At the Lake Part 5 - The Lake

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

We did settle in and found the countryside to be just beautiful. I fell in love with the dogwood trees among the pine trees. It was the pine trees that made the town grow because the lumber was needed to build houses and those buildings made for jobs which men needed to have the security to raise their families. The blossoms on the dogwood trees were so lovely to see as we traveled around the lake learning how to go in and out of the neighborhood.

Our piece of land was like a slice of a pie when you entered at the gate, the drive way made a wide curve to the pie end of the land and also it went down the hill to end at the boat landing where we could put the boat in to the lake. Vernon bought his boat with everything he needed to enjoy his fishing time. And he had a new pickup truck to launch and retrieve his boat. He even had a nice trolling motor so he did not have to use the paddle too much. Easy was better than for him to struggle. He was all for “good old easy”.

At the Lake Part 4 - Settling In

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

It took several trips to get every thing done so we could move in and let Vernon fish. The son-in-laws were a big help and our son Jr was an extra big help. He was there every time we made a trip and he saved Vernon many steps which really meant a lot. Once again, we had a family gathering at my second daughter's house and had a “bring a dish supper”. Vernon did his thing working the bar-b-q grill and the next morning we all drove up and got us settled in. Then off they went home and we were sitting outside the travel trailer in our new lawn chairs watching the sun go down. The sky had such lovely dark pink clouds and the wind was strong enough to let the clouds roll by gently. All was right in the world that night.

We had settled in on a Wednesday and by Friday we had it down about how we were going to live here. It won’t be too bad if we kept up the team work. Keeping everything in it’s place was the first and last thing done and done all day long. It did not take long to get that one rule down pat. With out fail. Otherwise, it was a lot of work. And when I could not play, neither could Vernon, so we helped to make it second nature to do “Rule Number One” every time.

At the Lake Part 3 - A Change in Plans

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

It was the best time together with all my children and the two grand children. Which was the good part, but then the bad part came. Vernon had to be rushed to the emergency room and from there they admitted him to a room and they did not let him go for three days. The doctor said “No traveling”. The doctor suggested Vernon find a fishing hole big enough to keep him happy. And that's he did! He found it at Toledo Bend Lake. In the parish of Sabine in the town of Many, Louisiana. It is a beautiful place and great for fishing. It’s well know for the good fishing.

Now we had to do some quick thinking. We would have to continue to live in the travel trailer, now parked at the new lake property. It would do but it did not give us room to have company. Thank goodness the butane did operate the stove and hot water and as Vernon did have power service installed to our site, we could have our air conditioner and central heat when needed. He also had to install a disposal sewage filter station. Then we started to live where Vernon needed to live.

Although I had given up all my furniture, which I did not have room for, I did manage to keep most of my crafts. These would keep me busy when Vernon would be on the lake. I had to put it away when we ate, because the trailer was sort of built in yet could be taken apart and made into beds if needed. Knowing I needed to have a place to put away the craft supplies when not working them made it difficult for me. Just getting it out or putting it away was a big job. Yes, I did have the energy to do it each time as I had nothing else to do, and staying busy is better than complaining. I was not blessed with my sister’s art painting. I did needle work: embroidery, knitting, crochet, counted cross stitch, quilting and sewing my clothes.

At the Lake Part 2 - The Travel Trailer

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

The first thing we did was look for a travel trailer. There were so many trailer lots to look at and finally, I let Vernon look for himself with my list of wants. When he did find one that looked likely, he would take me and I would either OK it or let him look further. Finally, he did find one and it was perfect for what we could be comfortable in. The next job was to outfit it and that’s when he left me to do it. Yes! He found it! ... I packed it! Guess you know how we worked together now.

I did have a lot of shopping to do, and it was so nice to be able to find what was needed and add some small items to make it our new life style: fishing and roaming everywhere.

We had to give the furniture to the children. They took what they could. From the kitchen and bathroom, I took what I could and the rest was up for grabs to who ever wanted what. I wore myself out and was glad we now had a date set to leave. We planned a nice supper out with the children at a nice restaurant. Every one wanted sea food. So we went to Don’s Sea Food House. Where we gathered to enjoy being together one more time. Then we were going to leave very early the next morning and start living on the road. All the goodbyes were said and every one left to go home.

At the Lake Part 1 - The Phone Call

[note: This is an 8 part story written by my sister Esther.]

We had a good weekend. The bar-b-que was great. There was the usual crowd and the food was ever so good. Vernon loved to cook and it was so easy to enjoy cooking out doors and having all the family together. Everyone brought covered dishes to add to the potato salad, bake beans and veggie plate. And not to mention the cakes and pies! There was always enough leftovers to help with the next day’s lunch. Vernon would take those with him to enjoy when he would take time to eat his lunch on his job. And there was enough for the children to take some home too.

I remember Mom always sent Vernon home with a fresh loaf of her homemade yeast bread or if she knew of someone coming our way she would send the loaf to us with them. And of course it was good to carry home some of her goodies to eat so I would not have to cook after the drive home.

One Monday, Vernon left for work. He serviced lifting equipment for a company out of New Orleans for the Baton Rouge area. I had just hunted up the all the morning dishes and was cleaning them up when the phone rang. It was the nurse at one of the plants telling me she had sent Vernon to the hospital in an ambulance and I needed to go see him. I got there in time to see his doctor and was told it was an apparent heart attack. He did not look like he was having a problem when I saw him. He was calm and was not in any pain that I could see. But the next day when he had a second one, they confirmed he did have a heart attack.

The doctor said he would not be able to go back to work. Vernon would now have to find something else to fill his day. It was going to take some time to know what would he do with all this free time. Just the thought put his wild imagination into overload and the things he thought of were wonderful! But, no way could we afford them. Traveling seemed like a possibility. We really did have fun thinking of all the places we could go. He wanted to fish where ever there was a nice lake and I could see some of the states I had dreamed of one day seeing.

Nobel Peace Prize

For those of us who are lucky enough to be citizens of this country that as been so blessed, we often demonstrate strange attitudes. We can be so petty and jealous of each other. At times our antagonism knows no bounds when directed at one of our own because of perceived differences in personal beliefs, life style, achievement, and even location of one’s birth and residence.

The brouhaha giving President Obama the Nobel Peace Prize is a case in point. Senator John McCain made an effort to be magnanimous in his comments when being questions about the Nobel committee’s selection, but it was half hearted at best.

CNN showcased interviews questioning the reasons Obama was chosen. Instead of being pleased that an American president was the recipient, there was grousing about every conceivable woe this country is experiencing, and complaining that Obama hasn’t solved them. We have become so politically divided in our constant battle for political control at the same time we are fighting two wars that we have forgotten how to recognize the meaning of the word, PEACE.

I think people have forgotten what the Nobel Peace Prize is and what it stands for. I take the committee at its word and share their belief that Obama’s call for new diplomatic dialogues between nations to work toward achieving a non nuclear arms treaty the most important goal this country or any other could have.

Nobel prize for Peace 2009: Barack Obama
"for his extraordinary efforts to strengthen international diplomacy and cooperation between peoples"

Go Boom!

Those crazy scientists at NASA have shot the moon! Egads! Don’t we have enough spots on the planet to test our missiles and rockets without having to shoot the moon?

Looking for water is not an excuse. Those guys in Houston have all the water they need and if they think they are deprived, wait a while for the next hurricane. Besides, they might get a spring flowing and turn all the dust on the surface into mud. If that happens how will anyone drive the Rover when it gets stuck in the mud?

I like the moon the way it is. It’s not broken, so don’t fix it.

October Birthdays

My brother, Jerry is celebrating his 78th birthday today, October 6. I wished him a happy day on the telephone and we reminisced about Dad’s and brother, Mickey’s birthdays, October 3rd and October 15th respectively.

I often celebrate deceased family birthdays by having lunch at a favorite salad bar and remembering our shared days of long ago. Being the oldest of eight, I remember all my siblings from their babyhood. The oldest memory of my sister, Adeline is a fleeting moment when she was a tiny baby and Mom had just finished giving her a bath. I remember Mickey as a small baby sitting in his highchair at breakfast as Mom and Dad fed him milk from a cup and calling it coffee. My earliest memory of Charles is as a baby wrapped in a blanket being held on Mom’s lap as we rode in an automobile. I saw Elbert the morning after his birth as he was lying in a baby buggy beside Mom’s bed. I recall baby Esther lying on a pillow when Mom brought her from the bedroom to the living room to show her to a neighbor. I watched Richard as he learned to walk, and I held Jerry when he was still a newborn.

I used to remember the years each was born and their ages as they grew older, but these days, I have to re-calculate the years and age by starting with mine. I don’t remember many of the celebrations but I seem to remember occasions when someone blew out candles on a cake. My own birthday must not have been a priority for me to remember because I can only recall two, and have forgotten my birthday at least 3 or 4 times. In all honesty though, now that I’ve reached the age of 87, I take note and heave a sigh of relief that I’ve added another year to my life. As the saying goes, living is better than the alternative!!!!

Happy Birthday!

Food Bank Contributions

I have become acutely aware of the many families experiencing hard times as the country struggles to recover from the collapse of our financial system. Families are losing homes, jobs are being lost, employers are not hiring workers, and many are going out of business themselves.

In one of our Instant Message chats, I told my sister Esther about an interview I saw on CNN of a man desperately looking for work; his biggest worry was getting food for his family and he himself was hungry.

There must be many people in the same situation. Wishing we could help in some way, Esther and I decided to start using the money we planned to spend for Christmas presents and make donations to a food bank. We have told our children about our plan, and they too have decided to do the same.

This year, I would like to ask those who send me Christmas presents to make a food bank donation instead. It will be a holiday without presents ‘going to’ and ‘getting from’ but the holiday will still be cheerful knowing we have might have made a small difference in someone’s life.

There are many ways to contribute besides giving money and there are many worthy causes besides food banks. I encourage readers to make a special effort during this time of recession to help, be it a family member or a charity of their choice.

Editor's note: Here are some charities to consider:

Charity Name	What they do
Fisher House	specializes in helping vets and their families
Feeding America	food bank previous known as Second Harvest Food Bank
Just Give	clearing house for many worthy charities
Oxfam America	oxfam's usa branch - works on world wide hunger
Heifer International	works on world hunger by helping families raise animals that can be used for food and exchange

Summer by Esther

[note: this story was written by my sister Esther]
　
It was summer and school was out and my sister Marion Elizabeth and her daughter Kim came to visit. They made the trip from Mexico City to spend a bit of time with us.

I had four children, three girls and a boy. My closest neighbor had three girls and with Kim we had a yard full of active kids. Which was good as we lived at the end of the lane. It was out side the city limits. We had old oak trees in the front and back yard where it was so nice to just sit and watch the sun rise and sun sets.

Marion Elizabeth , and Mary the next door neighbor and I would sit outside to have our morning coffee, and watch the children play. They would have different games and often they would treat us to a play one of them wrote or to a musical program.

When Marion Elizabeth unpacked her oil paints and set up her canvas the children became her models. I had always admired her ability to take a blank canvas and create a lovely scene. It was a gift. She did paint with a passion. I watched as she worked the canvas and as the scene progressed. I could see how she was able to use the small or thin or larger brushes to add the details she wanted; to show the shadows and to capture the colors she needed by the way she would dab a color and blend it, with several other colors, was interesting. Even the children enjoyed watching her and would pose as she wanted. They never lost interest. As the days went by it became a habit to see how much she had done and wait for her to ask them to come and sit for her.

Marion Elizabeth would keep a conversation going while she worked and also take time out to watch what the children were doing. My favorite was when they would all start to sing the new songs from the radio. Another thing my sister love to do is direct the choir. And the children just loved her. She always liked to teach and she did it well.

One thing the children liked often was the picnic we had. The weather was nice and too pleasant to stay in side with so many running in and out. We put out a large jug of ice water and Kool-Aid, with spigots which made it easy for them to get their own drinks.

One day we loaded up the children and went fishing. No one had any luck, though Marion did fish all day. She is a dedicated fisher woman. A true fisherman will enjoy fishing even though they don’t have a bite or even a nibble. That’s our Marion. About time for Vernon to come to the lake after work and he threw in his line and before he could reel it back in he had one hooked. He turned around to Marion and said “that’s how you have to do it”. That one fish was enough to make a meal for all of us.

Another day we went Dewberry picking at the bluffs above the river. Every time I have went there, I always came home with enough to make a Dew Berry dumpling and serve it with ice cream. Dewberries are like Black Berries only smaller and they have a more tart taste. They are the best ones to make a cobbler or with dumplings.

It was so nice to have my sister visit. And Marion taught the children to play Spite and Malice. A game two or more players could play. The more the better, the less cards the players would have and the game could last for hours.

I don’t know if Marion ever finish the painting of the children playing in the back yard under the old oak tree with a tire swing hanging on one of the heavy limbs. It looked good to me. But the artist is the one who has to work till it is done to her satisfaction. And Marion Elizabeth please know I did enjoy watching you paint and even more so enjoyed your visit.